From the play book
Why? Leadership is rarely about dramatic moments. More often, it is found in conversations, encouragement, difficult decisions, quiet acts of service and the daily choice to keep showing up. Schools are changed not by extraordinary people doing extraordinary things, but by ordinary people faithfully doing the next right thing, day after day.
If you have stayed with this book to the end - or even if you have simply
flicked ahead to this chapter - you may already have realised that the job
description of a principal is rarely close to the reality of the role.
Throughout these pages we have, in many ways, skimmed across the
surface of the mill pond, offering pointers and reflections that may provide a
scaffold for dealing with the daily challenges of leadership as they arise.
Looking back, it is difficult to know what to include and what to leave out.
Leadership is layered and deeply personal. Based on life experience, I have
tried to balance practicality, application and reflection while highlighting
some of the core issues foundational to successful school leadership.
But at the end of the day, an obvious question remains:
Why would anyone aspire to principalship?
Why step into a role that is demanding, accountable, emotionally draining
and, at times, relentless?
The role not only requires a focus on learning and leadership, but also
oversight of the many competing pressures that emerge each day -
whether in a small school community or within a complex K-12
environment approaching one thousand students.
And yet, despite the pressure, principalship remains a privilege.
It is the privilege of helping shape a community and working towards
shared goals alongside committed professionals. It is the opportunity to
influence culture, build trust and create an environment where young
people can flourish.
As noted earlier:
"Leadership begins when certainty ends. True leadership is navigating
ambiguity, not managing the known."
The unpredictability of leadership is not always comfortable. We plan
carefully. We strategize, project and prepare. Yet life constantly reminds us
that certainty is limited. A year, a month, a week - even a single day - can
bring unexpected challenges or opportunities.
For me, faith has always provided an anchor in that uncertainty.
Psalm 46:10 reminds us:
"Be still, and know that I am God."
Life is unpredictable. Leadership certainly is. But there is peace in
recognising that while we cannot fully predict the future, we are not
required to carry every burden alone.
Sometimes in life there are touchstone moments that quietly alter the
direction of a journey.
One such moment occurred long before I ever imagined becoming a
principal.
At the time I was working as a carpenter on the roof of a school building -
something that would probably never happen today with modern safety
regulations and fenced work sites. It was lunchtime and I was sitting within
the roof structure when two sixteen-year-old girls below began speaking
harshly to the male principal. He lost that conversation.
But strangely, that moment became a catalyst.
Watching the interaction stirred something deeper - an awareness that
leadership mattered, that relationships mattered, and that schools needed
leaders who could combine authority with understanding.
That moment eventually launched a journey of more than forty-three years
in education, most of it spent in leadership.
The focus throughout those years has always been student welfare and
opportunity - providing young people, regardless of background, with the
chance to learn, grow and achieve.
Principalship is not simply another occupation.
It is the privilege of touching lives.
It is helping provide the next generation - and perhaps the generation after
that - with a foundation from which to launch into life.
It is the joy of working alongside fellow professionals and watching them
grow into leadership themselves. Pages could be filled with stories of young
teachers, some from difficult backgrounds, who joined a staff team, found
encouragement and support, and developed a deep passion for serving
young people.
To later watch those same teachers step into leadership roles in their own
right is one of the genuine rewards of the profession.
There are also moments that stay with you forever.
A former student, now established in a professional career, stops you in the
street and quietly says thank you.
A younger child who has experienced trauma, abuse or family breakdown
slowly learns that it is acceptable to trust again - acceptable to smile again.
There is something profoundly grounding about reading picture books to
Kindergarten children and watching their eyes, expressions and body
language as the story unfolds. Small hands quietly slip into yours in the
playground, seeking safety and reassurance without words.
Those moments are never insignificant.
Leadership today often speaks about emotional intelligence. While the
phrase itself may not have appeared frequently throughout this book, much
of effective leadership is built upon it in practice - listening before reacting,
reading situations carefully, understanding people, managing conflict
thoughtfully and recognising that schools are deeply relational places.
Structures matter.
Policies matter.
Systems matter.
But people matter most.
Some leaders also choose to continue studying while raising families,
working full-time and carrying significant leadership responsibility. At
times the load feels overwhelming. Yet the desire to keep learning - to gain
greater understanding that may ultimately benefit young people - becomes
the motivation behind the early mornings, late nights and deadlines.
The quotations shared throughout this book come from ideas and reflections
gathered across that journey. They remain because they connected with
something meaningful along the way and became part of the mental
kaleidoscope through which leadership and life have been viewed.
Hopefully they may also become catalysts for reflection for others.
The motivation for finally putting pen to paper has simply been the hope
that some of these insights may prove useful to those walking similar paths.
In retirement, continuing to encourage and support school leaders has
remained deeply rewarding. In many ways it reflects the same purpose that
shaped principalship itself - contributing to something larger than self.
It is hoped that readers may, at times, read between the lines of this book
and discover hints, understandings and practical insights that help build
schools where young people feel safe, valued and capable of success.
The mind map on the preceding page is an attempt to provide a visual
representation of the complexity and breadth of the principal's role. No
diagram can fully capture the countless demands, relationships and
responsibilities that converge each day, but it serves as a reminder that
leadership is far more than dealing with the issue immediately in front of us.
In many ways, the principal resembles a skilled juggler, keeping multiple
balls in the air at once-instructional leadership, relationships, marketing,
wellbeing, compliance, presence, culture and legacy, among many others.
The purpose of the mind map is not to overwhelm, but to acknowledge the
reality of the role and the privilege that accompanies it. Effective leaders
learn to hold these competing priorities in balance while maintaining sight
of the bigger picture and the enduring difference they are seeking to make.
To reflect on leadership, complexity, foundation and perception are all part
of the bigger picture. In the daily pressures of school life, it is important to
remember that there is always a larger purpose beyond the current
challenge, WHS issue or HR matter. Leadership is sustained by the
conviction that our work contributes to something greater than the demands
of today.
For those serving within Christian education, principalship also carries an
added dimension.
Each day becomes an opportunity to commit the work to God and seek
wisdom, strength and grace for the challenges ahead. It becomes an
opportunity to model faith through actions, relationships and integrity -
not through preaching, but through consistent example.
And perhaps that is where this reflection finally arrives.
Leadership is rarely about titles, status or control.
It is servant leadership at its most vulnerable - willing to risk because
matters of the mind matter.
It is the daily commitment to building environments where young minds
can grow creatively, safely and confidently.
At its heart, leadership is stewardship.
It is people working together to create places where young lives can
flourish, staff can grow, communities can feel connected and hope can
quietly take root.
That is why the work matters.
And perhaps, in the end, that is why people still choose to lead.
So Why? Why Choose to Lead?
School leadership is not an easy path. It asks much and often gives quietly.
There are long days, difficult decisions, sleepless nights, and moments when
the weight of responsibility feels overwhelming. Leaders carry community
expectations, staff wellbeing, student futures, and the relentless pressure of
constant change.
And yet - despite all this - people still choose to lead.
Why?
Because leadership, at its heart, is about influence and service. It is about
creating schools where young people are known, valued, challenged, and
inspired. It is about building cultures where teachers grow, communities
connect, and hope becomes visible in everyday moments.
Most school leaders will never fully see the long-term impact of their work.
The student who finds confidence. The teacher who stays because someone
believed in them. The family who felt supported during difficult times. The
quiet culture shift that changes the direction of a school. These moments
often unfold slowly and invisibly.
Leadership is rarely glamorous. But it is deeply meaningful.
The best leaders are not remembered because they were perfect. They are
remembered because they were present, courageous, calm under pressure,
and deeply committed to people. They brought stability during uncertainty
and optimism during challenge.
Perhaps that is why we choose to lead.
Not because leadership is easy, but because it matters.
And in schools, few things matter more.
Final Reflection Questions
1. Why did I first choose school leadership, and has that reason
changed over time?
2. What aspects of leadership still bring me genuine joy and
fulfilment?
3. When leadership becomes difficult, what helps reconnect me to
purpose?
4. What kind of culture do I hope my leadership leaves behind?
5. How well do my daily actions reflect the values I want others to
experience?
6. Who has shaped and influenced my own leadership journey?
7. In what ways have challenge and adversity strengthened my
leadership capacity?
8. How do I ensure leadership remains sustainable and healthy for
myself and those around me?
'Leadership is not a destination to be reached,
but a journey of continual learning, service, and growth.
The real reward is knowing that others are stronger because you led.'
Dr DJ Faull 2026